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On October 5th, my ex husband set me on fire. Literally poured gasoline on me and set me on fire. Regardless of me and my feelings right now my son is top priority. I am so scared on how things will be for him as he grows. There are so many unanswered questions right now and i am not sure how to even begin trying to help him work through his problems. If there is anyone that has advice for me let me know.....
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Good Morning Lucky1,
My heart goes out to you and your son. I really don't know where to begin, but what I can say that I have started to look into is counseling for my daughter. I also get her involved with organizations that help her get in touch with her inner feelings and learn how to express them. She doesn't openly talk to me, but I see the pain and the anquish that she is going through due to the absence of her father.
I am praying for you and your family, but look into family counseling for you as well. You will be surprised how much it helps.
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Rachelle wrote:Good Morning Lucky1,
My heart goes out to you and your son. I really don't know where to begin, but what I can say that I have started to look into is counseling for my daughter. I also get her involved with organizations that help her get in touch with her inner feelings and learn how to express them. She doesn't openly talk to me, but I see the pain and the anquish that she is going through due to the absence of her father.
I am praying for you and your family, but look into family counseling for you as well. You will be surprised how much it helps. Holodynamics.com holds all the answers you'd need - just read the books, you don't have to buy the over priced courses. This guy is human and contradicts his own work but if you can get past that and see the core of his work you'll understand how to help the kids and the parents.
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Good Lord Lucky1, I am a South African Father of three at ages of 11 Boy,5Girl and 3 Girl.I have friends who have passed on ans some still in Jail till today for various crimes they commited in South Africa and they call me to check up on their kids and feeling very much guilty of what they have done in their lives.What I always tell them whe I visit them is to start forgiving themselves first as the divil has overpowered their minds and hearts.Then they should should also pray and ask for forgiveness from their victims and the people they Love.God always has a way of answering prayers no matter what.
I believe in prayer and I think it can work for anyone who believes.Life begins when you start opening that door of prayer and all will be history.Remember that all of us are sinners and although we call ourselves the children of God, he still Loves us equally,Your Son must be a very brave man when he grows up and teach him the difference between what is wrong or right through his heart and he must always pray before he makes any decisions in Life.If God mearnt us to be where we are today, he knows where he want us to be tomorrow. I will pray for your family tonight and I know God will will hear my prayers and answer yours too.He will free you from pain and give you and your Son strenght to grow together as He knows his people.
May the great Love of God and blessings be with you for ever.
Regards
Choke.
P.S.He who belives in him shall never perish but live iternal Life.(South African Lingo)
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